Is Dishonest
What I always think about appearance is when you don't take it into account to judge someone. I have some people I barely knew that they are so grand and glowing on the surface. But within, inside of them, their personalities, I would say my 'unsightly' friend is much better than them to befriend with.
And when it comes to love, what we actually look for is understanding. For all mischievousness, pricks, deviltry, naughtiness a person possessed, another one only need to welcome it. Yet, appearance is no longer important. What makes a person feel glowing is when she thinks the world fully accept her the way she is, including her loved ones. That is exactly what makes her looking great. Not to mention getting laid to rejuvenate our skins, but yeah, happiness for being accepted is what makes you pretty.
It is inessential to bring up the study reports to support that argument. All we need to do is feeling happy with what we have. Be grateful for the beauty we possessed. Someone worth waiting will accept all of our flaws without complaining it. Just think about it, then you will be happy.
As for other guys who look for appearance first, well, you guys are not wrong. Instead of blaming each other, improving ourselves in and out is more important.